100% responsibility and you in relationships.
Relationships
Relationships: all relationships have the potential to work.
Providing both parties take 100% responsibility for everything in their lives including their relationships.
Often times people come asking:
Am I in the right relationship? Because I don't want to waste my time...
Will he give me children? Because I don't want to waste my time...
Will we get married? Because I don't want to waste my time...
Should I divorce him/her? Because I don't want to waste my time...
Can I trust him? Because I don't want to waste my time...
Is he/she the one? Because I don't want to waste my time...
Is this my twin flame? If it's not that then I don't want it..
Is this my soul mate? If it's not that then I don't want it..
Will we be together for a long time? Because I don't want to waste my time...
Is it worth getting involved in this? Because I don't want to waste my time...
Will he/she break my heart? Because I don't want to get hurt again..Because I don't want to waste my time...
Will we break each others heart? Because I don't want to get hurt again..Because I don't want to waste my time...
Will they get over their addiction?
Is he having an affair?
Does he love me? Because I don't want to get hurt again...
Because I don't want to waste my time...
And so on...
There is so much to be said about the level of the above questions and thought patterns/paradigms and beliefs...
The expectation the judgment and the externalized self limitations...
The conditioning and the trauma talking and running your life, running the show.
But instead I will focus on taking 100% responsibility.
It will transform your relationships and it will change the dynamics.
- Enemies become friends
- Friends become lovers
- Lovers become friends
- Enemies become friends and lovers
- Lovers become strangers
- Friends become strangers
- Strangers become friends
- Strangers become lovers
And so on...
A relationship working at its highest possible potential means all of that, all of the above and many more variants.
There is so much, dysfunction in relationships because there is so much dysfunction of self.
A working relationship is one where you take 100% responsibly for yourself and allow the dynamic to shift you into bliss.
A working relationship means in some cases being together and in others being apart.
A working relationship is working at a base level of knowing oneself, loving honoring and respecting oneself.
The only working relationship that you need to be having is with yourself.